threshold (n.) — the magnitude that must be experienced for rebirth to be manifested.
Divorce is not the end of your story. It is the portal to it. I'm here to walk that territory with you.
The Philosophy
Divorce dismantles not just a marriage — it dismantles a self. The home you lived in. The family you built. The woman you thought you were. The future you had planned.
Most therapy approaches divorce as a crisis to survive. I approach it as a threshold to cross.
What I bring is different: play, creativity, and radical self-expression into the hardest terrain you've ever navigated. I hold space for your grief, your rage, your confusion, and your curiosity — without rush, without judgment, without the pressure to be okay before you're ready.
My mission is simple and enormous: help you answer the questions that feel unanswerable. Who am I outside of partnership? What is home? What do I believe about care and belonging? Who am I on the other side?
The Map
Territory One
"I need to make sense of this story."
Before you can move forward, your story needs to be witnessed — fully, without judgment, without the need to resolve it quickly. Grief, rage, love, relief, shame, confusion. All of it is allowed. We hold the whole thing.
Territory Two
"I don't know what home means anymore."
Divorce rewrites the definitions of family, home, and care. Together we orient you — not back to what was, but forward to what home can mean when you get to decide. We rebuild the nest from the inside out.
Territory Three
"I'm terrified I won't be okay."
This is the center of the fear. I midwife you through it — creating safety inside the terror of "am I safe to separate?" until the question becomes not "will I survive?" but "watch me."
Territory Four
"I'm ready to meet her."
The woman who emerges from this threshold isn't who she was before — she's someone she's always been, finally unencumbered. We align to her: her desires, her worth, her vision, her life.
Your Guide
I became a therapist because I believe that the most stigmatized moments of a woman's life are also the most potent. Not in a silver-lining way. In a real, sacred, in-the-body way.
I am unconventional. I am future-focused. I bring creativity, play, and self-expression to places that are usually only allowed to be grief. I hold you with fierceness and tenderness in the same breath.
I am what I call a "public nurturer" — someone who has built an entire career on emotional safety, re-mothering, and guiding people through family transitions.
Blair Cobb, LCSW
Founder · Ride The Wave
The Work
Personalized one-on-one sessions to process your story, heal identity wounds, and move through the threshold at your own pace.
Deep work to rediscover who you are outside of partnership — your values, desires, and vision for a life that is truly yours.
Trauma lives in the body. We integrate somatic approaches to help you feel safe, grounded, and at home in yourself again.
Your story matters. We witness it fully and help you author a new chapter — one built on truth, not survival.
Building the internal safety you need to move through fear and into sovereign, empowered living.
Navigating the complexity of co-parenting after divorce with clarity, boundaries, and your children's wellbeing at the center.
Begin The Journey